Ernest Hemingway at age 24 |
Hemingway’s life is remarkably well documented. He was a prodigious letter writer and many memoirs
have been written by family, friends, and associates. He saved a wealth of papers, some involving the
most mundane aspects of his life. His
literary importance and the amount of personal material have led to numerous
biographies. I have been reading a bunch of material: memoirs, biographies, letters, stories. I’ve moved through many of them simultaneously,
taking each phase of his life in turn, and it has been a valuable comparative exercise. It’s been quite interesting to see what each
biographer feels is important, what he covers, and the things omitted by one that
another dwells on.
Some observations:
· He had a most remarkable, oversized personality. Men and women were drawn to him like flies
around a bright night light. I’ve jotted
down lots of adjectives as I moved through the story of his life: passionate, adventuresome, narcissistic,
mean, kind, energetic, envious, competitive, thoughtful, bombastic, self-absorbed. He had a commanding personality, who, as his
friend the poet Archibald MacLeish once said, would suck all the oxygen out of
the room when he walked in. Friends
would flock to be around him – to Northern Michigan, Chicago, Paris, Spain, Key
West, Bimini, Wyoming/Idaho, Cuba – wherever he was, wherever he was going, they
wanted to be there with him. It is truly
remarkable how many people, over so many years, traveled long distances to spend
time with him, once there often in the company of other friends of his they had
never met, forming a sort of gang in orbit around him, and typically doing something
they may never have done by themselves and didn’t always particularly like – fishing
and hunting.
· When Hemingway was in his late teens and early
twenties, beginning to make his place in the world, it is remarkable how many
of his close friends and associates were much older than he. His two most important Michigan friends, the
siblings Bill and Kate Smith, were four and seven years older. As an aside, there’s reasonably suggestive evidence that he
had a romantic relationship of some kind with Kate, who years later would marry the author John Dos Passos, another friend of Hemingway’s whom she met when
they were both visiting him in Key West.
His first great love, the Red Cross nurse Agnes in Italy, was seven years his senior. His first wife Hadley was eight years older, and his second wife Pauline
four. His best friend from his Red Cross
ambulance experience in Italy, and with whom he roomed for a while in Chicago, was Bill Horne, a Princeton graduate eight years
older. In Paris, he socialized and
corresponded with writers and artists sometimes decades older. He was mature for his age, exciting, interesting, and interested.
· So how was it then that this man so full of boundless
energy and adventure could be so focused on death? When Hemingway was a teenager, his mother
told him “everything you write is morbid.” He had that strange fascination with death,
suicide, and killing animals (particularly big ones) for sport. It’s there in his writing from the beginning. In Indian
Camp, one of his earliest published stories, his alter-ego Nick Adams as a
boy witnesses the terrible suffering of a woman undergoing an emergency
cesarean section without anesthesia and the suicide of her nearby husband who, unable
to bear her screams, slits his own throat.
The personality of the man seems so inconsistent with the themes of his
writing. Being around him in person, I imagine one would think that he was the writer of grand adventure stories.
· The startling number of suicides in his immediate
family is well known: besides himself,
his father, his one brother, and one and possibly a second of his four sisters;
and, many years later, a granddaughter. But
the number of suicides among his extended circle is also remarkable: his third wife the writer Martha Gelhorn; his young Venetian
love Adriana Ivancich; the father of his first wife Hadley; and his long-time Havana
housekeeper.
· As an adult, Hemingway became progressively estranged
from most of his family, save his sister Ursula. When his mother died, he hadn’t seen her in 20
years, and he didn’t attend her funeral. He had few real
life-long friends. And as with people, when he was done with
a place, he moved on. The Northern
Michigan about which he wrote so passionately in his early years, which was so
formative of his character, he visited just once after leaving at age 22. From about that age as well until his death
he returned to his hometown of Oak Park/Chicago only a handful of times. When he left Key West after living there for
about 10 years, he rarely returned. His
youngest son once said that Hemingway would swallow and use up places, then be
done with them. He was like that with a lot of people as well.
·
Yet he could be remarkable kind and thoughtful,
sometimes to people he hardly knew. One poignant
example stands out to me: the two touching,
well-crafted letters he wrote to old Paris friends Gerald and Sara Murphy on
the deaths of their two teenaged sons, one from meningitis and one from tuberculosis
just a few years apart, reveal an extraordinary kindness. The boy with TB was sick for some years, and Hemingway went out of his way to visit him, and he wrote the boy letters as well. For recondite reasons that will be grist for generations of psychologists to come, by the tender age of 32 Hemingway was calling women not much younger than himself “daughter,” and not long after that chose for himself the nickname “Papa.” Imagine, say, being 40 years old and calling
your 35 year-old friend Ernest Hemingway “Papa.”
· He was a disciplined writer (and a voracious
reader). Hemingway could write anywhere;
in hotel rooms, on trains, on boats. He had to, for he was often away from his home base for many months at a time. In 1929-1930 at one stretch he was away from Key West for 10 months, staying from days to months at a variety of locations in Europe and the States. He was
very focused on word counts – he continually mentions them in letters, often
also noting how many pages he threw away.
His well-documented writing experience reveals that for him as for many
great writers it was as much perspiration as inspiration.
· To say Hemingway was accident-prone would be an
understatement. Throughout his life, a progression
of serious injuries caused by alcohol, recklessness, and just plain bad luck
(such as the two airplane crashes in Africa in the early 1950s), including a
staggering number of concussions, left him physically and mentally compromised by
his mid-50s. That he was a prodigious
drinker and amateur boxer surely didn’t help his health any.
The courses of experimental electroshock treatments he received at the
Mayo Clinic seem especially misguided and likely contributed to his mental deterioration
in the months before his suicide.
Hemingway was an exciting man, a magnetic man, with great virtues
and great faults. Even if he had never
written a word, it would not have been surprising if stories were written about
him, he was that kind of man.
R Balsamo
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